So Damn Lucky…

I had to take a step back this week after getting extremely frustrated people were not understanding what I was going through as the weather changed, I flared, I was swollen in weird places, I was tired, I was grumpy and I just wanted someone to know exactly what I was going through.  I’m beyond frustrated to start over with a new diagnosis.  I don’t want to learn how to manage all over again.  I don’t want to re-learn how to explain it to people all over again. I just don’t want to start from the beginning…all over again.

But I have to…

Sometimes I think the pain and exhaustion of my chronic illness is so strong it should read across my forehead.  I had to come to the realization, once again, that beyond some visible swelling or skin issues, my conditions are invisible.

If I tell someone I’m hurting, they don’t know what that entails.  I wanted to visually put into perspective what is going on and hope that can help to clarify a little of what I’m learning to go through.

There is a typical body “graph” at doctor or physical therapy offices that want you to “show” them where you’re hurting.  Usually the patient circles an ankle, or maybe a spot on their back, or maybe both knees…

Welcome to the “where does it hurt” body graph for me…

On any one day I could hurt in one of these places, ten of the places or I could start the day hurting in one place and it moves to another.  On my very worse days, I could hurt in all of them all at once.

 

 

Here is where I hurt from Fibro…

Fibro2


Here is where I hurt from psoriatic arthritis….

PSA2

Put them together and I look like this….

Combined2

Add headaches, irritable bowel, methotrexate side effects, extreme fatigue and memory loss and I have quickly realized learning this new diagnosis with my fibromyalgia is going to make this one of the most challenging times in my life.  My pain is different, my energy is different, my body is different…oh yeah…and I also have an 8 month old son,a marriage, a full time job and life to lead.

I grieved for the “old me” when I was diagnosed with fibro.

I am grieving once again with the psoriatic.

Acceptance will come, but as I know from before that its going to take some time.  Now is the time for me to lean on family, friends and my stubbornness to get through.

 

 

  • Dave Matthews said at his Radio City show: “This is a song about where you’re about to trip and fall and smash your face but everything slows down to the point where you comprehend you’re gonna get hurt but it’s not enough time to do anything about it. And this song is about how not to forget about counting your blessings.”

“So Damn Lucky”

Everything’s different

My head in the clouds

I hit this corner
With my foot on the gas
I started sliding, I lose it
Everything’s different just like that

Oh my God, wait and see
What will soon become of me?
Frozen heart
Screaming wheels
Does that screaming come from me?
So damn lucky, when went on ahead
You say, you say
I see you later
I heard what you said a few minutes later
I’m sliding
Everything’s different, again

Oh my God, wait and see
What will soon become of me?
This frozen heart
Screaming wheels
But does that screaming come from me?
I’m dizzy from all this spinning
Now I’m thinking that you did all you could
When you said my love
Take it slowly
Ok, is what I said
Oh my God, wait and see
What will soon become of me?
Frozen heart
Screaming wheels
But does that screaming come from me?
Take me back, just before I was spinning
Take me back, just before I got dizzy
Take me back, amazing what a minute can do
Just like you
So, so, so, so, up, around, around, around
Amazing what a minute can do
Around, Around, Around
Ok….

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1 Comment (+add yours?)

  1. Julie Ryan
    Nov 21, 2014 @ 22:28:29

    Kinda crazy when we draw it out like that. I’ve been thinking I wanted to find one of those images and color it in with my various issues. At the same time I’m kinda scared to see what it’d look like. You can get through this, we all can. We just keep fighting.

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